Blaming the Client

Yes, you read the heading correctly. Blaming the client for not changing is all too common a practice among therapists. Maybe they won’t be up front and say it directly to the client. No matter. It’s an all too frequent response among counselors. Dare I say it’s even a default belief. How arrogant! Think about […]
Don’t Trust Your Counselor

You read that correctly. You don’t need your eye prescription checked. Don’t trust your counselor! Clients are ever so ready to surrender their power to a therapist. Part of me can understand this. After all, they sought out help because they are stuck, at least in one area of their life. Being stuck, however, is […]